Today is a day to be grateful that I married a jerk...

I have the good fortune to be married to the same man since March of 1987. He is still wearing the exact same pant size, he is the same weight much the same personality and has always I can see now tried to make me happy as best he could. He on the other hand has had to live with several different versions of me and some of them have not been easy I am sure. I thought several times in our years together that he was a jerk and had changed from the man I married. I felt trapped,I felt like a burden, I was at times depressed others angry and I wished for a better life. It took me a long while to see that I was responsible for my own happiness and that the only one controlling me a putting limits on what I could do was me. Thank you Kevin for being there through all it all. Very early on you encouraged and supported me and saw what I could not. Oh and PS sometimes your a jerk but that’s ok, it s is part of the package.